The Next Step

I’m going to let you in on a little secret of mine. Promise not to tell? I’m not very good with directions. Never have been, even though I come from a family who greatly excels in this area.

“When you come to the next stop sign, turn left. That’s right. Then go half a mile until you reach Jenna Ella’s house. Who by the way, makes the most delicious apple pie you ever did taste. You can’t miss it. Look for the big tall oak tree. Then go . . .”

I’m hopelessly lost. Did he say turn left or right? I think he said right, right? Following directions involves paying close attention. And in order to get from point A to point B, you need to break it down step-by-step. Right? Right. So I propose to do just that with this little story. Let’s talk about taking the next step.

When I first began writing short stories, I didn’t know what I was doing. I simply enjoyed the process of writing. As it turns out, I love laughing at myself and giving my neuroses plenty of exposure and fresh air. I also love passing along what I have learned about life. And if my stories make a difference in someone else’s life, that makes it all the more worthwhile.

It all began in a rather innocent way. The annual Christmas letter was my first foray in the world of writing. Early on I learned that one must be mindful of what they write. Otherwise, like hot dogs and chili, it may repeat on you.

I have spent a considerable amount of time “writing to the wind.” However, this is how you hone your craft. Next came learning how to operate a computer. The takeaway: do not remove your finger from the DELETE key—ever. Thank goodness I have a computer geek husband who remains on standby and the red eye.

One other important aspect I garnered along the way had to do with keeping my inner critic quiet. You’re not a trained professional writer. Just who do you think you are Miss Fancy-Pants? Besides, it’s “i before e except after c.” I still don’t have a very good grasp with grammar and punctuation, but that doesn’t stop me from writing.

Thankfully, my inner critic stayed quiet long enough in order for me to write a book. Writing a book is quite an undertaking. And I’d like to now take a moment to personally thank those individuals who showed me the next step in order to complete my manuscript. “Pssst, hey Hank, cue the music . . .” Seriously, I’m most grateful.

Oh, there have been many confusing moments when I didn’t know the next step. But somehow or another I was shown the way and guided to the right information or helpful individual. This is not something you can figure out in advance. It requires a certain amount of trust and fortitude. Ignorance as well can be an asset and blessing in this department.

Earlier today, I asked the Universe to show me the next step concerning a writing project. For clarification, I don’t limit myself to relying solely upon human health. I also appeal to celestial help. Guidance and support are available in many ways through various resources.

The final step of this process has to do with letting the answers to your questions arrive in an organic manner. In other words, step aside for the assistance to arrive naturally. “That’s right, step aside, you heard the young lady.” You can help this process along by maintaining an attitude of gratitude and expectancy.

So if you happen to have a project or dream that’s gathering dust balls because it seems too overwhelming, break it down. Ask for directions. If it is truly meant to be, doors will open. “Now keep on going until you see that big old sign up the road. Then turn left, where it says, Congratulations! You did it!” I knew you could. Right? Right! Now how about a piece of that pie?