Your Goat Gets Got A Lot

Use Your Words

The word is your oyster, and so is the world, when you use your words.

Your Goat Gets Got A Lot

Halo

You’ll never believe what happened to me at a big-box name brand store.

Your Goat Gets Got A Lot

1-800-KARMA

Living the dream within fifteen minutes or less.

Your Goat Gets Got A Lot

The Belle

You too can dwell in the consciousness of “ALL IS WELL.”

Your Goat Gets Got A Lot

Calling Card

It’s all about inspiration and a little bit of levity.

Your Goat Gets Got A Lot

Go Higher

What to say to an ego that won’t let go.

Your Goat Gets Got A Lot

A Wise Word

Wise words from an 89-year-old hot shot to a newlywed husband.

Your Goat Gets Got A Lot

Not So Subtle

From subtle to sublime, it’s your choice every time.

Your Goat Gets Got A Lot

Deeply, Truly

How to take that first dive into the world of possibilities.

Your Goat Gets Got A Lot

To Forgive

Forgiveness: Now that’s a hard pill to swallow.

Your Goat Gets Got A Lot

The Bear Facts

From follies to facts, and why we need to pay attention.

Your Goat Gets Got A Lot

Free-range

Quieting the mind with some good old common sense.

Your Goat Gets Got A Lot

Fuss Butt

How not to freak out when company visits. But don’t listen to me. I freak out.

Your Goat Gets Got A Lot

Sensei

My face takes on the appearance of a mood ring.

Your Goat Gets Got A Lot

Grow On

Unexpected advice from a spiritual counselor.

Your Goat Gets Got A Lot

True Grit

This is where my petticoat and I brave it alone.

Your Goat Gets Got A Lot

True Love

The “tsunami” hit around 3 p.m.

Finding Your Yes

Breathe

Memories of a Forgotten Lifetime

Your Goat Gets Got A Lot

Work-arounds

The fireworks began a little earlier than planned.

Your Goat Gets Got A Lot

Mistakes

My Higher Self decided it was time to step in on my behalf.

Your Goat Gets Got A Lot

Delayed

There is a good reason why.

Breathe

Memories of a Forgotten Lifetime

The Conversation

A classic case of Invasion of the Body Snatchers.

I have a dear friend who has a nephew, and many years ago I overheard one of their conversations.  At the time, his nephew was around eight years old.  “So, Uncle David, how are you?”

“I’m good Aaron, how are you?”

“I’m great.  Do you want to know what I did today?  OK.  So, let me tell you.  Do you want to know what I ate for breakfast?  OK.  So, let me tell you.”

On and on went this conversation, in complete sentences, where no details were spared.  I couldn’t believe my ears, nor could my friend.  It was the most delightful exchange, imbued with both excitement and innocence.  I still find myself enjoying the moment some twenty years later!

However, within that same time frame, but with the onset of puberty, you would never know it was the same boy.  

“Aaron, hi, how are you?  This is Uncle David.”

“Fine,” said in a deep voice with no further comment.

“What’s new with you?”

“Nothing much.”  His words barely audible to the ear.

“I see, well that’s just wonderful!” said my friend to his nephew.

Yep, a classic case of Invasion of the Body Snatchers.  How does it happen?  Why does this happen?  At this juncture, it was far easier for my friend to hold a conversation with a piece of fruit, rather than with his once ebullient filled nephew.

Do you remember those days when your child held your hand as though you were the center of their tiny universe?  Now, you’re lucky enough to catch a glimpse of their presence, as they orbit past you in lightspeed avoidance.  Such were the days.

Rest assured, this is all part of the plan.  And, as difficult as it is, perhaps it’s best to accept teens exactly where they are—up to a point.  No, they cannot leave their smelly socks draped on the living room sofa, nor talk endlessly on their cell phone to their BFF.  Rules and boundaries still apply.  However, if we can create the space for their feelings, growth, and individuation, this may be the closest way to bridge the generation gap.  And with time, you will once again belong to their universe.